OK here's the story in a nutshell..
In college, met this great guy on my floor who happens to be from my town (older than me and went to private high school while i went to public so we didn't REALLY know each other) and here's the catch. . . he dated my ex best friend's older sister. they broke up about 2 and a half months ago after dating for 2 years and we've been "involved" for about a month and a half/ two months. I really like him and I know that he likes me. He's kind of emotionally unavailable right now though because he's "damaged goods" and can't even think about being in another relationship. From time to time I get upset about this because he has made it clear he isn't ready for a relationship and doesn't seem like he'll ever be. The way he treats me and acts towards me is completely different though. I confronted him recently and said that it upsets me that you never EVER want to be in a relationship with me. . . and he said that he just says that as a defense mechanism because he can't even think about a new relationship right now but you never know what can happen. He also cited his first girlfriend, saying that he never thought he would get into a relationship in the first two months of his freshman year nor did he ever want to.
PS, I was away from him for a few days and it was constant "I miss you's" and "Come back's" ALSO I know it isn't entirely about sex because I couldn't have sex for a few weeks and we spent more time together than we ever had.
SO that's the situation. I want things to evolve... dates maybe? Something a bit more serious? Does that seem plausible? If yes, how? Is this a lost cause? please help!!
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