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Is he interested?? Or am I just a guinea
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16:30 Apr 11, 2009
Help! I met this great guy online and we've been on 5 dates in the last 2 weeks. We have a lot of the same interests, we have a ton of fun on our dates, and we really have great conversation. After our dates, we always email each other saying we had a great time and we start making plans for the next time we'll see each other. He's never had a gf before, he's 24 and I'm 22, and he has asked me (in emails) questions about how to "avoid becoming just a friend" with a girl. I have experience with relationships so I was honest with him and put everything in hypothetical terms about what to do. He read my email suggesting that he do things that make the girl feel special so that he stands out to her, and I suggest things like hand-holding and stuff, and he called me right after he read it to hang out. I thought he'd make a move... but he didn't. Is he just scared?? Or am I giving away free advice?? |
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16:33 Apr 11, 2009
This is something you need to have a talk -- an actual talk, not a chat or a text or an e-mail -- with him about. While I don't think that anyone would go out with someone on 5 dates (and these were actual dates, where he called you to arrange a time and paid for everything, right? not just the two of you hanging out watching movies at his place or your place?) to merely get ideas on how to approach another girl, but I could be wrong about that. There's no way of knowing what's going on in his head unless you ask. He could be asking these questions because he's inexperienced and doesn't want to upset/hurt/offend you if he does something and "blows it". There's an awful lot of guys who post on here about how afraid they are of blowing it. You may have to be the one to hold his hand first, or go in for the first kiss if he's scared. He may also be deeply ashamed that he just isn't Mr. SuperStud, or that you'll compare him to your other boyfriends or he'll kiss you wrong and you'll be turned off and reject him. There's really far too many hypothetical scenarios here that could apply. |
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08:26 Jul 29, 2009
hi good day my name is Norbert from Cameroon i will like you to be my friend this is my email: address you can mail me at nobert1@in.com hopping to read a sweet mail from you bye for now.  |